I’m going to be honest, titles make me crazy. I find it near impossible to pick a few words that accurately describe the passion of my life’s work. I used to think that my inability to stick with a title was because I was flaky or unfocused (lies we sometimes tell ourselves). However, I recently attended a workshop where the presenter talked about having an arch. An arch, being the overall message/story/drive that defines a person’s work throughout their life. Suddenly it made perfect sense. The arch which has followed through titles, is authenticity. My work revolves around holding space for authenticity to shine through, and ushering women through the obstacles that are keeping them from experiencing the joy and love of living their most authentic existence.
I was born with a fire inside. I was a feisty little girl who's name means truth and I always called it as I saw it. I grew up in a strong Matriarch home, it didn't occur to me that being born a woman could ever be viewed as a disadvantage. There is so much power in femininity, so much strength. And yet culturally we are taught the exact opposite. Women’s natural gifts of connection, emotion, and intuition are spun with claims that we are moody, irrational, and overly sensitive. The pressure to be perfect is felt on so many levels. We are expected to have the perfect bodies, be the perfect mothers, wives, and employees. And this pressure is what is distracting us from our true self.
It wasn’t until my own life flipped upside (when my husband of six years came out as Transgender) that I realized all so many of the ideas I’d be “sold on” in my life were actually so far removed from what I actually needed and wanted. Sometimes out of the wreckage of the life we thought was meant for us, that we find something even more beautiful and real than we could have created. That is surrender. This permission to fall apart and then rebuild, to find the path to the deepest of loves, and create a life built on authenticity is the cornerstone of what I do. To honor the cycles of darkness and life and really appreciate that there are countless opportunities for us to celebrate a new beginning.
I am on a mission of authenticity, pleasure, and empowerment. Through my personal and professional exploration I have discovered the magnitude of importance self-love has on our overall happiness. There is no perfect picture for how our lives should be, there is no perfect weight, job, relationship, or material object that could satisfy us the way our own love can. It is through honesty, compassion, intuition, and humor that I am able to create the space for my client’s self-exploration and personal growth.
I integrate the use of Tarot cards into my coaching work as a pathway to truth. I have been reading cards for over 20 years and have turned to them again and again in my own life when I've needed clarity and validation. The cards offer us the mirro we may need to see ourselves and the integration of Tarot and Coaching allows for profound exploration of desires, concerns, blocks, and aspirations. I make myself available by phone, video call, or in person in Southern Maine and New Hampshire Seacoast, so that time and distance need not be a hindrance. be sure to check out my Work With Me page, to see my other offerings such as my online program Awakening Your Sexuality and Business Cleanses! While obtaining my BS in Psychology I deepened my understanding of personal motivators, human sexuality and how gender intercepts us, both socially and psychologically. My work as a Holistic Health Coach reinforced my instincts that each area of our lives intercept to create overall happiness or dissatisfaction, and my year long Clairvoyance training program validated my ability to read and understand the depth of what is not being said so that deeper communications can be obtained. In addition to being a life-time learner, and taking joy in the pleasures of life, I am also the mother to two wild souls, the wife of an amazingly understanding man, a public speaker and Tarot Reader.