Intimacy begins within

“The aching emptiness, need to be loved, sense of loss or incompletion that women so often experience as second nature can be the longing to go home, the longing of what is real calling them to return.”-The Unknown She, Hilary Hart. ​

What if you started listening to that quiet voice inside you? The one that aches and longs to be heard?
What if you followed your passion?
Took action on your dreams?
Loved yourself without apology or judgement?

We all deserve to have a blissful relationship with ourselves, to love and celebrate our own body, to know and accept ourselves deeply, and to explore and enjoy our own sexuality. 

 Too often women give their power away. They let their parents, lovers, friends, and the media tell them what they should look like, act like, how they should experience pleasure.This stops here. It's time to take ownership of your body and discover who you are. In this moment you are imperfectly perfect and they only thing that may require some change is the way you feel about yourself. 

The conversation of sexuality is interconnected with the experience of self.
There is no right or wrong way to experience sexuality, and yet we all deserve to be experiencing it in a way that sets our souls on fire. Somewhere along the way, sex became taboo, a dirty act, somehow it was degraded from its position as the exquisite connection  to another human and the expression of love and passion. It is my hope to be your guide back to passion, back to exquisite sexuality, and divine intimacy. 

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Enjoy one of my current YouTube videos below. 

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In honor of the season of fall, here is a guided meditation on letting go of all that no longer serves and works for us.

What are people saying?

I recently attended the Love your Inner Goddess workshop with Alicia. She facilitated a fabulous time for all who attended. We had an all women group and went over great topics like taking time for self care, some of the history of sexuality and books and materials to help us look into some of the thoughts we all came up with. We took time at the end to center ourselves with meditation. It was truly a wonderful way to learn new ideas and be able to freely express ourselves and our concerns and feelings in a safe environment. I feel truly blessed to be able to leave the workshop knowing I made friends and regained more of my inner goddess power! Alicia kept the group on topic but let us all express our feelings and made it a very safe place to share and receive information. Thank you Alicia! ​

"Meeting Alicia was like reconnecting with an old friend.  She created a safe-space for each of us to feel completely accepted without judgement, so that we could have honest, open, conversations about intimate topics in our lives.  Never once did I feel shy or embarrassed.  Quite the opposite, I felt truly heard, and listened to.  Days after attending Alicia's workshop I found myself thinking about the visualization tool she taught us, and using that I've been able to learn more about myself, and what the goddess in me wants and needs.  Thank you, Alicia for teaching me how to listen to my inner voice that hides down deep below the surface.  I hear her now!"​

"Admittedly I came into the workshop a bit timid and unsure of what to expect. Alicia created such a supportive and safe space to share and connect with other women who, just like me, were having a difficulty time identifying and tending to their own needs. I walked away not only feeling empowered, but well-equipped for the challenge of making self-care/love a priority in my life again."

Juggling Motherhood & Sexuality

"Motherhood and sexuality do NOT harmoniously coexist in my life these days. So when I was offered a chance to take an online workshop with local sexuality and relationship coach Alicia Joy Stiles, I jumped at it. I felt thrilled, but also a bit tentative. .....
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Let's Really Talk About Sex 

"Over the four weeks my mind and my body began to shift into a safer, more confident place. A place that once felt out of control and too controlled at the same time."
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5 Reasons Sex Coaching Rocked My World (And it'll Rock Yours Too)

"Tears. I’m crying on the phone to a virtual stranger and I’m not exactly sure why. Except she doesn’t feel like a stranger and somehow I am sharing the most intimate details of my life with her. I am baring my soul and there is this hope that maybe she will help. Maybe, she will make things better...."
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